tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5870061891068324667.post828191130227519398..comments2022-11-09T01:30:13.917-08:00Comments on Icicles and Goji Berries: Don't You Worry Your Pretty Little Mindprincesslilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11722940285808602890noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5870061891068324667.post-12197892345725327152011-01-16T19:32:17.632-08:002011-01-16T19:32:17.632-08:00I know EXACTLY what you mean about the black and w...I know EXACTLY what you mean about the black and white thinking.. but in my case, sometimes that IS the case. I'm either cocky or self-loathing. I eat nothing or I gorge. I am a social butterfly or a hermit. Why is this so? I think it's because I FORCE myself to be this way. Does that make sense? Idk.. Anyway, you seem to be doing well! I'm glad you're so happy :)<br />Just keep in mind that eating is just that. Eating. Nothing more. It shouldn't define us. Our lives. Our happiness. You're so much more! <br />Keep up the positive attitude :)<br /><3 HaleyHaleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17728102924183771887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5870061891068324667.post-23655413180909582042011-01-16T07:56:21.199-08:002011-01-16T07:56:21.199-08:00Hi, I'm a new follower and I'm really happ...Hi, I'm a new follower and I'm really happy to have found your blog.<br /><br />I struggle with black and white thinking A LOT, and I have to keep reminding myself about all the shades of gray in between.<br /><br />Your post is so wonderfully positive it brought a smile to my face. I'm looking forward to reading more!<br /><br />Take care!L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16203523458111360276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5870061891068324667.post-4171577679597456642011-01-16T04:40:34.344-08:002011-01-16T04:40:34.344-08:00I'm glad that you're trying to let yoursel...I'm glad that you're trying to let yourself relax - you deserve it. It's good for you too.<br /><br />The ED is all about extremes - black and white thinking. A huge part of recovery for me has been about learning to find the middle ground that's in there somewhere. <br /><br />I love naan...haha. It is so good to hear that life has been wonderful lately. <br /><br />Stay strong!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02465017243367902399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5870061891068324667.post-22600108809040972962011-01-16T04:31:43.197-08:002011-01-16T04:31:43.197-08:00I'm glad to hear you've been doing well - ...I'm glad to hear you've been doing well - but you're right, don't worry your pretty little mind! There is no reason to feel guilty or worried, because yes, you do deserve to be happy and surrounded by wonderful people and enjoy good times. And to be stress free while still remaining busy is a wonderful thing. <br />I can understand how being a black-and-white thinker is, though. It's a good trait to have sometimes, but a pain in the butt other times :P Don't worry - with time, that will start to phase out :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com